chatnmeet

Someone to talk to, tonight.

Chatnmeet is a calm place for adults to meet someone new. Browse profiles for free, start a conversation when it feels right, and take it at your own pace. No swiping and no subscription.

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  • Ready in 3 minutes
Two people having dinner together

Noor, 29

Online

hey, saw you come online. long day?

Pretty long day. How about you?

No swiping, no pressureSecure payment, no subscriptionAdults only, 18+

How it works

Three calm steps

No questionnaires and no obligations. Make a profile, look around, and start a conversation whenever you feel like it.

01

Create your profile

An email address and a username is all it takes. No photo to upload and no card details to leave behind.

02

Browse the profiles

Read profiles at your own pace, see who is online and save the ones you like to your favourites.

03

Start a conversation

Send a message when it feels right. Replies you receive are free — only the messages you send use a token.

What you get

Everything that helps, nothing that gets in the way

We stripped out the noise. What is left is what you need to get to know someone calmly.

Someone is always up

Including at half two in the morning. There is nearly always someone online, so you never have to wait until tomorrow.

Conversations without rush

No swiping and no matches that vanish after two messages. You talk as long as you like, at your own pace.

Save your favourites

Found someone you like? Save the profile to your favourites and come back to the conversation later.

You stay in control

Set a monthly limit on your tokens, pause a conversation or block someone. Always possible, no explanation needed.

Photos behind the lock

Some photos are only visible with tokens. You always see the price before you unlock anything.

Moderated and safe

Every conversation is moderated and you can report anything in one click. We act on it the same day.

Conversations

What it sounds like here

A few examples of the kind of conversations that happen on Chatnmeet.

I thought chatting online wasn't for me. But after a while I was writing every evening and it became something to look forward to.

Example conversation

With Noor

The nice part is that there's no rush. You can take it at your own pace and get to know someone properly first.

Example conversation

With Lieke

Big buttons, clear text, and I can always see what a message costs. That helps.

Example conversation

With Eline

FAQ

Questions we get a lot

Not finding your answer? Email hello@chatnmeet.com and a real person will get back to you.

What does it cost to join?

Creating an account, browsing profiles and receiving messages is free. To send a message yourself you use tokens: one token per message. Bundles start at € 9.50 and there is no subscription or minimum term.

Will I be charged automatically?

Never. You buy a bundle of tokens when you need one. There is no subscription and no automatic renewal. You can also set a monthly limit in your account.

Do my tokens expire?

No. Tokens stay in your account until you use them. Receiving messages never costs anything, so your balance only drops when you send something yourself.

How do I start a conversation?

Open a profile and send a message. There are no matches to wait for and no daily limits. If you are stuck, the profile shows what someone likes talking about.

Who can read my conversations?

A small team for quality and safety. We do not sell conversation data and we do not use your messages for advertising. You can have your account and conversations deleted at any time.

Do I need a smartphone?

No. Chatnmeet works just as well in the browser on your computer or tablet as it does on your phone.

What if it gets too much?

You can freeze your balance and set a pause in your account settings. Our moderators also keep an eye out and will point you to real support services where that is the right thing to do.

Ready to meet someone?

Create a free account and look around. Your first 40 tokens are on us, so you can simply see whether this suits you.

It takes about 3 minutes. You do not need to enter any card details.